When You Feel Weary: How to find strength for one more step.

Some seasons of life feel like you are running in first place in a race. Others feel like you are dragging your feet through deep mud, wondering how you’ll make it another day.

If you’re in one of those weary seasons right now — emotionally, physically, or spiritually — I want you to know this: God sees you. And He has not asked you to carry this alone.

Weariness Is Not Weakness

We sometimes confuse being tired with being faithless. But the truth is, even the strongest saints grew weary. Elijah called down fire from heaven in one chapter (1 Kings 18), and in the very next, he was so exhausted he wanted to give up (1 Kings 19).

God didn’t scold him. Instead, He sent an angel with food, water, and rest. Our Heavenly Father knows our limits — and He delights in meeting us there.

God’s Strength Is for Right Now

Isaiah 40:29–31 says:

“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;
but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.”

God doesn’t just give strength for the finish line — He gives strength for the next step.

Practical Ways to Lean on His Strength

When your own reserves are low, here are a few ways to let God’s strength carry you:

1. Pray Simple Prayers — “Lord, help me take the next step” is enough.

2. Rest Without Guilt — Jesus rested. You can too.

3. Receive Encouragement — Let someone else speak life over you. Don’t isolate.

4. Focus on Today — God gives daily bread, not a lifetime supply all at once.

A Personal Story

There was a season where I was juggling far too much. Ministry commitments, family needs, and personal struggles all collided. One morning, I opened my Bible just to the Psalm of the day, and these words leapt off the page:

“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” — Psalm 73:26

That verse became my breath prayer for the week. And then I became aware of a biblical principle that was meant to bless us physically: God told us to work six days and rest on the seventh. While we are not under the laws of the Old Testament, could it be that the way God made us was to thrive and live optimally when we gave ourselves a full day of rest once a week?

Isaiah 58: 13-14 brought healing to my life as I began to view the day of rest as a delight that was meant to bless me. It says that when we honor the weekly day of rest and view it as a blessing, that:

Then you will take delight in the LORD,

And I will make you ride on the heights of the earth;

And I will feed you with the heritage of Jacob your father,

For the mouth of the LORD has spoken.”

Remember This

God doesn’t measure your worth by how much you can push through. He delights in being your sustainer. He’s not disappointed that you need His help — He’s honored you’ve chosen to lean on Him. And he created a special day of rest for you to enjoy once a week. If you don’t feel you have the time to take that day of rest, ask him to help you find a way. He will be faithful to help you make the changes and ask for the help that gives you the rest that you need.

A Prayer for the Weary

Lord, for the woman reading this who feels worn thin, wrap her in Your strength today. Give her rest for her body, peace for her mind, and hope for her spirit. Remind her she’s not alone — You are with her in every step. Amen.

If you’re feeling weary, you don’t have to power through on your own. Let Him be your portion. Let Him carry you. And view opportunities for weekly rest as a blessing he wants for you to thrive.

When Your Faith Seems Small: Why even a mustard seed is enough.

One of my favorite verses is found in Matthew 9:24— “Lord, I believe. Help me in my unbelief.”

There are days when faith feels like a roaring fire — steady, strong, unshakable and on those days I know God can handle anything in my life.

And then there are days when my flickering candle feels dim. I believe God can answer prayer, but I’m not sure he will answer it the way I hope it will go. And then I start wondering if my request is important enough to listen to. And then my problem seems even bigger. I have to make a concerted effort to refocus; to give it to God, and to pray that he will strengthen my faith.

If you’ve ever thought, I wish my faith were stronger, I want you to hear something Jesus said that changes everything:

“If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain,
‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” — Matthew 17:20

God Never Measured Faith by Size

I have seen a mustard seed. A mustard seed is tiny — about the size of the tip of a pencil. It’s not even as big as an apple seed. And yet, in the hands of the right Gardener, it grows into something much larger than itself.

Jesus didn’t say, “If you have faith the size of a mountain…” He said mustard seed. Because the power isn’t in the size of your faith — it’s in the strength of the One you put it in.

Small Faith Is Still Faith

When the desperate father in Mark 9 cried out to Jesus, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief,” he wasn’t bringing perfect faith — but he was bringing honest faith. And Jesus met him right there.

Your faith may feel shaky. You may not see the whole picture. But if you can still whisper, “Jesus, help me to trust You,” even as you doubt — that’s faith.

Why We Discount Small Faith

In our results-driven culture, we think bigger is better. We want faith that looks bold, fearless, and sure.

But the truth is, God often starts His greatest work in what looks small:

• A shepherd boy with a sling and a stone.

• A widow with a handful of flour and a little oil.

• A baby in a manger.

He asked Peter to step out of the boat and walk on water toward him. If a sea full of waves in the middle of a storm is not “shaky ground,” I don’t know what is! Peter stepped out of the boat in obedience—but as the waves moved under his feet, he yelled to Jesus for help. Jesus caught him before he sank.

Small beginnings and shaky faith don’t intimidate Him. They’re His specialty. Peter stepped out of the boat, and when he became dismayed by his situation, Jesus caught him and didn’t let him sink.

Is that you? Can you take one step forward and believe that Jesus will catch your hand and not let you sink?

Some days, I feel small. That’s when we’re in the perfect place for God to use us. God has chosen the weak things of this world to confound the wise. Corinthians 1:27

How to Nurture Your Mustard Seed

If you’re in a season where your faith feels fragile, here are a few ways to let it grow:

1. Water It with the Word — Even a verse or two a day can feed your spirit.

2. Expose It to the Light — Spend time with other believers who encourage and challenge you.

3. Protect It from Weeds — Be mindful of voices (online or in person) that plant doubt instead of truth.

4. Celebrate Tiny Mustard Seed Wins — Thank God for the smallest answered prayer or glimpse of His goodness.

A Personal Story

There was a season when I prayed for something so long without an answer that I felt my faith shrinking. I believed the prayer I was praying was within God’s will, but it seemed impossible. I remember telling God, “I’m not sure this will ever happen… but teach me that I can believe you more.” I started thanking him in advance for what he would do. Twenty-seven years later, God answered that prayer so completely that I am humbled beyond words.

Looking back, I can see that even my tiny faith kept me tethered to Him. And in His kindness, He answered in a way that reminded me: He honors even the smallest decision to trust.

Faith Grows as We Use It

Think of faith like a muscle — the more we lean on it, the stronger it becomes. Every time you choose to trust God in a small thing, you’re building the strength to trust Him in the big things.

Zechariah 4:10 says:

“Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.”

Your small faith today could be the seed of something much bigger tomorrow.

A Prayer for the Woman Whose Faith Feels Small

Lord, for the woman reading this who feels like her faith is barely holding on, remind her that You value even the smallest seed of trust. Grow her faith day by day, and let her see that You are faithful to finish what You start. Amen.

If all you have is a mustard seed today, that’s enough for God to work with. Place it in His hands — and ask him to water it.

You are Not Too Much: Embracing the woman God created you to be.

Have you ever been told — or felt — that you’re “too much”?
Too talkative.
Too emotional.
Too opinionated.
Too ambitious.

I’ve been told that my emails are too long.

That I’m too emotional about my kids growing up. (Can any mother EVER be too emotional about those milestones?)

That I like baking too much—yes? Why are you eating seconds while saying that to me?

Those words can stick to our hearts like labels we never asked for. And over time, they can make us shrink back, soften our voice, and dim the light God put in us.

But here’s the truth: God didn’t make a mistake when He made you.

God Designed You Intentionally

Psalm 139:13–14 says:

“For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

When God knit you together, He wasn’t careless. He didn’t accidentally give you that laugh, that passion, that way of seeing the world.

The very qualities you may have been told to tone down could be the very tools He intends to use to bless others.

The Enemy Wants You to Dim Your Light

Jesus said in Matthew 5:14–16 that we are the light of the world. But you know what the enemy loves to do? Convince us that our light is “too bright” — so we hide it.

Sometimes that pressure comes from the outside — critical words, cultural expectations, or even well-meaning people who just don’t understand us. Other times, it’s an inside job — the voice in our own head telling us to quiet down.

But friend, God’s light in you isn’t meant to be muted. It’s meant to shine.

Jesus Loved People Who Were “Too Much”

Look at the Gospels and you’ll see Jesus gravitate toward people who didn’t fit the mold:

• Mary of Bethany, who poured out a year’s wages of perfume in one extravagant act of worship. (John 12:3)

• The woman at the well, who ran back to her village and couldn’t stop talking about Him. (John 4:28–30)

• Peter, whose boldness and impulsiveness God shaped into leadership that would help build the Church.

God isn’t intimidated by your “too much.” He’s the One who gave you the capacity for it.

Living Fully Without Apology

Living in the fullness of who God made you isn’t about being loud for the sake of loud, or dramatic for the sake of drama. It’s about stewardship — using your God-given personality, gifts, and emotions to serve others and glorify Him.

Here’s how to start:

1. Identify Your “Too Much” Labels — Write them down. Then ask God to show you the Kingdom purpose behind each one.

2. Practice Holy Boldness — Speak up when the Spirit prompts you, even if your voice shakes.

3. Find People Who Celebrate You — Surround yourself with friends who see your God-given traits as gifts, not flaws.

4. Use Your Passion for God’s Glory — Let your energy, ideas, and creativity be channeled into serving others.

A Personal Reflection

I used to hear, “You’re too sensitive” as a criticism. But as I’ve walked with Jesus, I’ve seen how that sensitivity lets me notice when someone’s hurting, hear the Holy Spirit’s nudges, and write words that speak to tender places in people’s hearts. My emails that were too long became words of love to others in the form of blog posts.

The very thing I once wanted to change is the thing God uses to fulfill my calling.

Your “Too Much” Is Someone Else’s Lifeline

What feels like “too much” to one person might be exactly what another person needs. Your laughter could be someone’s reminder that joy is still possible. Your ideas could spark someone else’s courage. Your prayers could be the breakthrough another heart has been waiting for.

You are God’s workmanship (Ephesians 2:10). And His workmanship is never “too much” — it’s just right.

A Prayer for the Woman Who’s Been Told She’s “Too Much”

Lord, for the woman reading this who has been told to quiet down or shrink back, remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made. Show her how to use her gifts boldly for Your glory, and surround her with people who see the beauty in how You made her. Amen.

You don’t need to apologize for being who God created you to be. Step into it. Live it fully. And let His light shine through every bit of your beautiful “too much.”

When God Says, “Wait.” Learning to Trust His Timing Without Losing Heart.

We are rooted in a culture that celebrates action.

Do you want to hear a funny, personal story? I’m still laughing at myself. One of my best friends called me on the phone and recommended a book to me entitled, “Invitation to Solitude and Silence,” by Ruth Haley Barton. My friend said it had given her a new perspective on being still and waiting on God.

What was my first thought? Yes. I thought to myself, I will get it on Audible so that I can listen to it while cleaning my house.” Multi-tasking. Which is NOT the same thing as being still and waiting on God. AHEM.

Yes. That’s me. Always multi-tasking. Not very good at being still. Not very good at waiting.

Waiting is one of the hardest words in our faith vocabulary.

We pray for an answer…
We dream about the next step…
We long for breakthrough…

And sometimes, instead of “yes” or “no,” God whispers the word we least want to hear: “Wait.”

Waiting Feels Like Standing Still

When God asks us to wait, it can feel like we’re wasting time — like we’re parked on the side of the road while everyone else zooms past.

But biblically, waiting isn’t passive. It’s not twiddling our thumbs until God finally moves. Waiting in the Lord’s hands is active trust.

“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” — Psalm 27:14

The Tension Between Trust and Timing

I think of Abraham and Sarah, waiting for the child God promised. Year after year went by, and the promise seemed more impossible. And yet, God’s timing was perfect — because He wasn’t just growing a family, He was building a nation.

God’s timing often feels slow because He is preparing more than we can see. He’s aligning circumstances, shaping our hearts, and weaving details together with a wisdom we can’t yet grasp.

Why We Resist Waiting

If I’m honest, waiting challenges me because it makes me feel out of control. And control feels safe.

But here’s the thing: my control is an illusion anyway. The One who spoke the universe into being is the One holding my future — and He’s not late.

“But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles…” — Isaiah 40:31

When God says “wait,” He’s not withholding out of cruelty. He’s strengthening our faith so that when the answer comes, we’re ready to carry it well.

How to Wait Without Losing Heart

If you’re in a waiting season right now, here are a few ways to keep your heart encouraged:

1. Stay in the Word — Let Scripture shape your perspective. The Psalms are especially good companions in the waiting.

2. Pray Honestly — God can handle your frustration, questions, and longing. He’d rather have your unpolished honesty than distant politeness.

3. Serve Where You Are — Sometimes our “next” comes while we’re faithfully tending our “now.”

4. Remember Past Faithfulness — Look back at how God has already come through in your life — it will fuel hope for what’s ahead.

A Personal Story

There was a season I prayed for an open door in ministry that just… stayed shut. I tried to push it open. I tried to find a side door. I even tried to convince myself I didn’t want it anymore.

But during that time, God was quietly working. He brought people into my life who would later become my greatest support system. He deepened my prayer life. And when the door finally opened — in His timing — I realized the waiting had prepared me far better than an instant answer ever could.

The Blessing on the Other Side of Waiting

Every time in Scripture that God asked someone to wait, the outcome was worth it:

• Joseph waited in prison and was elevated to save a nation.

• Hannah waited in years of longing and was blessed with Samuel, a prophet who shaped Israel’s history.

• The disciples waited in the upper room and received the power of the Holy Spirit.

• Abraham and Sarah waited many decades to have the child that God had promised them. Decades!

Waiting with God is never wasted.

A Prayer for the Waiting Heart

Lord, for the woman reading this who feels weary in the wait, remind her that You are working in ways she cannot yet see. Give her fresh strength today, and help her trust that Your timing is perfect. Amen.

If you’re in a waiting season, take heart — God’s “wait” is not a denial. It’s an invitation to trust that His plan is unfolding right on schedule.

When You Feel Like You’re Behind in Life: God’s Timing is Still Perfect.

Have you ever looked around and felt like everyone else got the memo on how to “do life” — and somehow, you missed it?
Your friends are celebrating milestones you thought you’d have by now.
Your social feed is full of smiling faces and big announcements.
Meanwhile, you’re wondering, Why does it feel like I’m stuck at a red light while everyone else is green-lighting their way ahead?

If that’s you, I want you to take a deep breath. This is not the end of your story. You are not behind. And you have not been forgotten.

The Myth of “On Time”

Somewhere along the way, we picked up this unspoken timeline:

• Graduate by this age.

• Career by that age.

• Marriage, house, kids — all on schedule.

And when life doesn’t cooperate, we panic. We wonder if we’ve done something wrong or missed our “chance.”

But here’s the truth Scripture whispers over our racing thoughts:

“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” — Ecclesiastes 3:11

Not your neighbor’s time.
Not your co-worker’s time.
Your time.

God’s plan for your life is not a cookie-cutter calendar. It’s a masterpiece He’s painting one brushstroke at a time.

God’s Pace Is Not Punishment

It’s easy to confuse “waiting” with “being left behind.”
But waiting with God is never wasted.

Think of Joseph in Genesis. God gave him a dream when he was just a teenager — but it didn’t come to pass for over a decade. And in between? Prison. False accusations. Forgotten promises. Yet every step was part of God’s preparation.

You may not be in a palace right now. You might feel more like you’re stuck in the in-between. But God isn’t punishing you with delay — He’s preparing you for His divine assignment.

“For the vision is yet for the appointed time… Though it tarries, wait for it; For it will certainly come, it will not delay.” — Habakkuk 2:3

The Comparison Trap

I’ll be honest — my own seasons of feeling “behind” have always been made worse by comparison.
Scrolling through highlight reels.
Measuring my real life against someone else’s best moments.

But comparison is like looking at a neighbor’s clock and assuming it should control your schedule. Their timeline is not your timeline.

When Peter started comparing himself to another disciple’s journey, Jesus told him plainly:

“What is that to you? You follow Me.” — John 21:22

In other words: Keep your eyes on Me, not on them.

Trusting the Author of Time

When we trust God’s timing, we’re really trusting His character.
If I believe God is good, I can believe His timing is good — even when it feels slow.

Think about a baker with bread in the oven. If you take it out too early, it collapses. But if you leave it in for the full time, it comes out golden, fragrant, and ready to nourish.

God knows the exact “baking time” for your calling, your breakthrough, your answered prayer. Pulling it out early would ruin what He’s preparing.

How to Live Fully While You Wait

If you’re in a season that feels like “not yet,” here are a few gentle ways to anchor your heart:

1. Celebrate small wins. Keep a gratitude journal for the little things God is doing right now.

2. Invest in today. What can you learn, build, or nurture while you wait?

3. Pray expectantly. Talk to God about your desires — He welcomes your honesty.

4. Serve where you are. Sometimes our “next” comes while we’re faithfully tending the “now.”

A Gentle Reminder

You are not late. You are not less-than. And you are not overlooked.

God is weaving your story with threads of grace you can’t yet see. One day, the very things you thought were delays will become the places you see His fingerprints the clearest.

So, the next time you’re tempted to think, I should be farther along by now, I want you to remember this:
The God who spoke the stars into existence is holding your timeline in His hands. And His hands are steady.

A Prayer for You

Lord, for the one reading this who feels behind, remind her today that You see her, know her, and have not forgotten her. Give her peace to rest in Your timing, and joy to embrace the beauty of this moment. Amen.

If you’re walking through a season of waiting, I’d love to hear:
What’s one way you’ve seen God’s timing turn out better than your own?

Trading Fear for Peace: How to anchor your heart in the promises of God.

It was 2 a.m., and my mind was doing that thing where it replays every possible “what if” scenario like a broken record. I wasn’t worried for myself—oh, no. It was much worse than that. I was worrying about my children growing up. As happy as I am for their achievements and victories, I am sometimes tearful about the future unknown.

At 2 a.m., everything looks worse.

Fear doesn’t even have the decency to wait for daylight. It creeps in during the quiet hours when it’s dark, wrapping around our hearts like a heavy fog. And if we let it, it can steal our sleep, our joy, and our trust.

But here’s the good news: fear doesn’t get the final say.

Fear Is Loud — but It’s Not the Truth

Fear has a way of making its voice sound urgent and convincing. It tells you to panic, to plan for disaster; to brace for impact. But just because fear speaks loudly doesn’t mean it’s speaking truth.

God’s Word says:

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”

— Isaiah 26:3

Peace may not shout like fear, but it stands firm. And unlike fear, peace has the authority of Heaven behind it.

Anchoring Your Heart

The storms of life will come — Jesus promised they would (John 16:33). But He also promised that He has overcome the world.

Imagine you’re out on the water in a small boat. The wind picks up. Waves crash against the sides. You can’t stop the storm, but you can drop an anchor. That anchor is God’s promises.

When fear says, “You’re alone,” the anchor says, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)
When fear says, “You can’t handle this,” the anchor says, “My grace is sufficient for you.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)
When fear says, “This is the end,” the anchor says, “I know the plans I have for you… to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Choosing Peace in Real Life

I wish I could tell you that peace comes automatically once you love Jesus. But peace is something we actively choose — sometimes minute by minute.

Here are a few ways to lean into it:

1. Breathe and Pray — Inhale deeply and pray, “Lord, I trust You.” Exhale and pray, “You are my peace.” Repeat until your heartbeat slows.

2. Speak Scripture Out Loud — There’s power in declaring truth over your own mind. Psalm 23 is a beautiful place to start.

3. Worship Through the Worry — Put on a worship song that reminds you of God’s greatness. Fear shrinks in the presence of praise.

4. Replace the What-Ifs — When your mind starts listing worst-case scenarios, counter them with God’s faithfulness in your past.

The Night That Changed My Perspective

There was one night I couldn’t sleep because fear had me in a chokehold. I opened my Bible and my eyes fell on Philippians 4:6–7:

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

I realized something in that moment: peace isn’t the absence of problems — it’s the presence of God guarding me in the middle of them.

That night, I didn’t just read the words — I prayed them. And I felt my heart loosen its grip on the fear I’d been clinging to. I didn’t get all the answers I wanted, but I got something better: peace that didn’t make sense on paper.

Your Fear Has an Expiration Date

Fear wants you to believe it’s forever, but it’s not. God’s promises outlast the scariest “what if” in your life.

Revelation 21:4 gives us a picture of the ultimate peace to come:

“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain…”

One day, fear will be a distant memory. And until that day, you can live anchored in the One who calms storms with a word.

A Prayer for Peace

Lord, for the woman reading this who feels fear pressing in, anchor her in Your promises today. Let Your peace guard her heart and mind. Remind her that You are greater than anything she’s facing. Amen.

Next time fear shows up uninvited, remember: you have full permission to show it the door — and let peace stay instead.

The Beauty of Ordinary Faithfulness: Why your quiet “yes” matters to God.

Not every calling from God comes with trumpets and flashing lights.
Sometimes it looks like another pile of laundry — again.
Sometimes it’s showing up for the friend who always cancels.
Sometimes it’s doing the work no one applauds, the kind that will never make it into a social media post.

And in a world that celebrates the spectacular, it’s easy to wonder… Does this even matter?

Friend, I want you to hear me: yes. It matters more than you know.

God Sees What Others Miss

In 1 Samuel 16, when the prophet Samuel came to anoint the next king of Israel, David wasn’t even invited to the lineup. He was out in the fields tending sheep. Ordinary work. Overlooked by everyone — except God.

“The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” — 1 Samuel 16:7

The world sees titles and platforms. God sees faithfulness.
He notices the quiet “yes” you give Him in the small, unseen places.

Faithfulness Is the Fertile Ground for God’s Work

Ruth’s story still amazes me. She wasn’t chasing influence. She wasn’t looking for recognition. She was simply committed — to Naomi, to her new home, and to the God she’d come to trust.

Her daily faithfulness led her right into the middle of God’s redemption story, not just for her life but for generations after her. She became the great-grandmother of King David and part of the lineage of Jesus.

Your faithfulness in this season might feel small, but God can multiply it into something you can’t even imagine.

We’re Called to Be Steady, Not Impressive

Our culture loves “overnight success” stories. But in the kingdom of God, it’s the slow-growing roots that produce the strongest fruit.

Jesus Himself spent 30 quiet years before beginning His public ministry. Thirty years of ordinary days. Thirty years of working with His hands, eating simple meals, honoring His family — and all of it was pleasing to the Father.

Faithfulness is not about impressing people. It’s about consistently loving God and others, even when no one is watching.

Practical Ways to Live Ordinary Faithfulness

If you’re wondering how to lean into this kind of steady obedience, here are some simple, grace-filled ways:

1. Show up — Be present for the people God has placed in your life today.

2. Do the next right thing — Ask God, “What’s the one small step I can take in obedience right now?” Then take it.

3. Speak life — Use your words to encourage, even in everyday conversations.

4. Stay rooted in Scripture — Let God’s Word remind you that your value isn’t tied to productivity.

Your “Yes” Has Eternal Weight

Sometimes I imagine what Heaven will be like when God pulls back the curtain and shows us the ripple effects of our obedience. I think we’ll be amazed to see how much weight a single act of ordinary faithfulness carried.

• That prayer you prayed for someone in secret.

• That meal you cooked when you were tired.

• That time you listened without rushing to speak.

None of it is wasted. None of it is unseen.

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

A Final Word of Encouragement

If your days feel plain, if your efforts feel hidden, I want you to know: God is smiling over your faithfulness.

He is not looking for the most dazzling performance. He’s looking for a willing heart. And your quiet, daily “yes” is a melody to Him.

Keep showing up. Keep tending the little patch of ground He’s given you. The fruit may not be visible yet, but the roots are growing deep.

A Prayer for the Faithful Heart

Lord, for the woman reading this who wonders if her small acts matter, remind her today that You see her. Give her joy in the ordinary, strength to keep showing up, and eyes to see how her faithfulness brings You glory. Amen.

If you’ve ever seen God use something small and ordinary for His glory, I’d love to hear your story. It might just encourage someone else to keep saying yes.

Praying When Words Won’t Come: Finding rest in God’s presence.

There are days when the words just… won’t come.
Not for your to-do list. Not for your relationships. And especially not for your prayers.

You sit down, close your eyes, and try to talk to God — but instead, your mind feels like static.
You want to pour your heart out, but all you can manage is a sigh.

If that’s you, I want you to know something: you are not a “bad Christian” for struggling to pray. In fact, you’re in good company.

God Hears More Than Your Words

One of the most comforting verses in all of Scripture is this:

“The Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for,
but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.” — Romans 8:26

Did you catch that? God’s Spirit prays for you when you can’t find the words.
Even your silence is not empty to Him — it’s filled with His presence.

Prayer is not a performance. It’s a relationship. And God is not grading you on eloquence; He’s holding you close.

The Pressure We Put on Ourselves

Somewhere along the way, we started believing that prayer has to sound polished to “count.” That it should be neat, orderly, and free of doubts.

But the Psalms are full of raw, messy prayers. David cried out in fear, frustration, and deep sorrow — and God still called him a man after His own heart.

God doesn’t need your perfect sentences. He just wants you.

Ways to Pray Without Words

When your heart is heavy and your vocabulary feels like it’s run dry, here are a few ways to rest in God’s presence without forcing the words:

1. Sit in Silence — Set a timer for five minutes, close your eyes, and simply be aware of God’s nearness.

2. Pray Scripture — Read a psalm aloud, letting the words of David or Asaph become your own prayer.

3. Write It Down — Sometimes a pen and paper help you say what your lips can’t. Even bullet points count.

4. Listen to Worship — Let a song speak the words you can’t seem to form.

5. Let Your Tears Speak — Psalm 56:8 says God collects our tears in His bottle. They’re precious to Him.

Rest Is Also Prayer

One of my favorite stories in the Gospels is when Jesus fell asleep in the boat during the storm (Mark 4:35–41). He wasn’t in a hurry, and He wasn’t anxious — He was at rest in His Father’s care.

When you rest in God’s presence, you are declaring, “I trust You, even here.” That trust is a prayer all by itself.

When All You Can Say Is “Help”

Sometimes, the most honest prayer is just one word.
Help.
Please.
Jesus.

Short prayers are not less powerful. They’re often more potent because they come from the deepest places of our hearts.

Remember the story of Peter walking on water? When he began to sink, he didn’t have time for a long, theologically rich prayer. He shouted, “Lord, save me!” — and immediately, Jesus reached out His hand. (Matthew 14:30–31)

A Gentle Invitation

If you’ve been avoiding prayer because you feel you can’t “do it right,” I want to invite you to try again — this time without pressure.

Come as you are. Bring your sighs, your tears, your jumbled thoughts. God isn’t waiting for you to get it together; He’s ready to meet you in the middle of the mess.

A Prayer for the Wordless

Lord, for the woman reading this who feels empty and unsure how to pray, remind her that You hear her heart. Let her rest in Your presence, confident that the Spirit is interceding for her even now. Amen.

The next time words won’t come, remember: the power of prayer doesn’t come from your vocabulary — it comes from the One who listens.